"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chicks who "brag" but keep talking to you.

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I hadn't thought of this till another poster had brought it up before but have you ever had a chick or chicks who "brag" about different things to you and gotten mildly annoyed or bored and not bothered with the chick anymore but in actuality maybe the chick who kept talking to you was "bragging" in an effort to impress you?

Some poster had brought it up a while ago. Forgot who. But said the chick might've been actually trying to impress you. (Me).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Naughty Ninja said:
I hadn't thought of this till another poster had brought it up before but have you ever had a chick or chicks who "brag" about different things to you and gotten mildly annoyed or bored and not bothered with the chick anymore but in actuality maybe the chick who kept talking to you was "bragging" in an effort to impress you?

Some poster had brought it up a while ago. Forgot who. But said the chick might've been actually trying to impress you. (Me).
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I like to keep an open mind on these things. A lot of guys around here use a lot of tactics to preserve their ego aka nexting and usually next a girl before any of these situations fully develop.
 
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Yes they might brag to impress.

If they overdo it though , that's a big Attention-***** sign.


You can set the 2 apart easily. Stop her and start talking too. If she listens , she was bragging to impress.If she seems to only love the sound of her own voice than you got a major AW right there.
 
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Blondie :cheer: :cheer: I fvcked a DJ in a club!:D :D :woo:


Me::yawn: :rolleyes: Next.
 
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