"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chicks that grab your junk soon after you just met
- Thread starter AlphaNate
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Who knows where's she's been?
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
"Well son, that first time she grabbed my junk I knew she was special. I then asked her what her first name was and the rest was history".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
shesabranchswinger
Banned
- Joined
- May 14, 2017
- Messages
- 253
- Reaction score
- 76
Why are you telling us about this without having made a move?
That's a f*ck first, ask questions later situation.
Her: (Grabbing your c*ck)
You: "I'll get back to you on that..."
On our first date I asked my girlfriend if I could tie her up and she said we should wait for that and I breathed a sign of relief.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's the fastest way to your wallet for a stripper…
Hardcore stripper game there.
MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 30, 2006
- Messages
- 12,733
- Reaction score
- 5,152
Actually, unless I found her attractive and was in the mood for lap action, I would be strong enough to resist. But yes, if she were attractive, I would take her fiddling with my junk as a sign that I'd get my money's worth. I always have the frame of mind walking into a strip club that I'm looking to walk out with a spot on my sweat pants.
So it looks like you want them them to spank your monkey instead of self service?