"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chicks that grab your junk soon after you just met

AlphaNate

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Super-high interest or red flag?

I've f*cked every girl that's done this, but damn if they weren't all f*cking nuts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Super horney and a really big green flag for pump and dump material. She's on the C Carousel and blatantly letting you know.
What does it tell you she wants? You, or your D ?
 
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I'd walk...

Who knows where's she's been?
 

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"Dad, how did you know Mom was "the one?"

"Well son, that first time she grabbed my junk I knew she was special. I then asked her what her first name was and the rest was history".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's even scary if it happens in a strip club, nevermind with a regular girl.

Why are you telling us about this without having made a move?

That's a f*ck first, ask questions later situation.

Her: (Grabbing your c*ck)
You: "I'll get back to you on that..."

On our first date I asked my girlfriend if I could tie her up and she said we should wait for that and I breathed a sign of relief.
 

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This has happened to me a few times at strip joints.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's the fastest way to your wallet for a stripper…
Hardcore stripper game there.
Actually, unless I found her attractive and was in the mood for lap action, I would be strong enough to resist. But yes, if she were attractive, I would take her fiddling with my junk as a sign that I'd get my money's worth. I always have the frame of mind walking into a strip club that I'm looking to walk out with a spot on my sweat pants.
 

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I always have the frame of mind walking into a strip club that I'm looking to walk out with a spot on my sweat pants.
So it looks like you want them them to spank your monkey instead of self service?
 
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