"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chicks rubbing boobs on me lol

HalfAddict

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So I am at this Christmas party last night, many of my friends there are older, (30+) and I swear every chick in the place kept coming on to me. It got rather uncomfortable when this dude's lady came up behind me where I was sitting and rubbing all up on me while I am sitting across from the guy who brought her there. Later on this dude is eyeballing me and floating around winking at me, I didn't know if he wanted to fight me or **** me.

Now I had no interest in any of the chicks at this party, I was mostly weirded out.. What can one do in such a situation? I was about to call her out on that **** but decided as everyone was drunk as hell to not say anything in fear of this afc freaking out and trying to fight me over it. This would not be worth it at all as I would probably knock him out and he was the hosts brother.

Awkward situation ftl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's likely the "dude" was bisexual and was using his chick to bait you into a threesome. It's also possible he has a fetish where he likes to watch his woman bang complete strangers, and vice versa.

A guy that wants to fight will walk up and throw a punch or talk sh*t, not wink at you.

I was dating a woman recently who was bisexual. In my case, she would do this same thing to VERY attractive women and try to bait them into threesomes with she and I. It worked on 2 occasions. It was her fantasy to watch her man get a BJ from a total stranger, and who was I to argue?

Either way, I'd take it as a compliment and pat yourself on the back, but I don't blame you for being weirded out. The whole winking thing....no thanks.
 

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Anytime a girl does even the slightest rub against me with any part of her body, I question if it was accidental. Maybe its just my ego.
 

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Yeah man, it was def not accidental I mean she was rubbing her tits all over my back grabbing my shoulder and ****.. I wanted no part of it lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The next time a woman Purposely rubs against you like that with her breats etc..

give them a good rub she is violating you...violate her right back she won't like the forwardness trust and believe.

all is fair right?
 

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Yah a dude winking at me would have weirded me out as well. My first instinct would be :cuss: followed by :kick: . But I probably would have just stayed the hell away from both of them.
 

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Pull away from her, laugh and say,

"Whoa, whoa, whoa! Wait a minute, I'm not that easy!"
 

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When a woman "accidentally" rubs her boobs against me, I turn to see if there was enough room for her to pass by and miss me.... If it was on purpose and I like what I see, I go for it.
 

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Are they fat? It's a fat girl's signature move.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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