"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks rubbing boobs on me lol

HalfAddict

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So I am at this Christmas party last night, many of my friends there are older, (30+) and I swear every chick in the place kept coming on to me. It got rather uncomfortable when this dude's lady came up behind me where I was sitting and rubbing all up on me while I am sitting across from the guy who brought her there. Later on this dude is eyeballing me and floating around winking at me, I didn't know if he wanted to fight me or **** me.

Now I had no interest in any of the chicks at this party, I was mostly weirded out.. What can one do in such a situation? I was about to call her out on that **** but decided as everyone was drunk as hell to not say anything in fear of this afc freaking out and trying to fight me over it. This would not be worth it at all as I would probably knock him out and he was the hosts brother.

Awkward situation ftl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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origin138

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It's likely the "dude" was bisexual and was using his chick to bait you into a threesome. It's also possible he has a fetish where he likes to watch his woman bang complete strangers, and vice versa.

A guy that wants to fight will walk up and throw a punch or talk sh*t, not wink at you.

I was dating a woman recently who was bisexual. In my case, she would do this same thing to VERY attractive women and try to bait them into threesomes with she and I. It worked on 2 occasions. It was her fantasy to watch her man get a BJ from a total stranger, and who was I to argue?

Either way, I'd take it as a compliment and pat yourself on the back, but I don't blame you for being weirded out. The whole winking thing....no thanks.
 

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Anytime a girl does even the slightest rub against me with any part of her body, I question if it was accidental. Maybe its just my ego.
 

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Yeah man, it was def not accidental I mean she was rubbing her tits all over my back grabbing my shoulder and ****.. I wanted no part of it lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The next time a woman Purposely rubs against you like that with her breats etc..

give them a good rub she is violating you...violate her right back she won't like the forwardness trust and believe.

all is fair right?
 

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Yah a dude winking at me would have weirded me out as well. My first instinct would be :cuss: followed by :kick: . But I probably would have just stayed the hell away from both of them.
 

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Pull away from her, laugh and say,

"Whoa, whoa, whoa! Wait a minute, I'm not that easy!"
 

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When a woman "accidentally" rubs her boobs against me, I turn to see if there was enough room for her to pass by and miss me.... If it was on purpose and I like what I see, I go for it.
 

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Are they fat? It's a fat girl's signature move.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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