"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chicks on Cell Phones

scrouds

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Do you game them? Here's the scenario:

Taking a walk in the park, always fun to oogle opposing traffic, so I give this chick the once over (lets say 7~7.5) and smile at her. She smiles back and drops a hello as she's passing in the middle of her saying something on the phone.

So... does the Don Juan stop her and try and start a conversation?

Does he continue walking?

Or maybe something more obscure, like picking up a pinkie0thumb phone and start mining a phone conversation?

Ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A 'don juan' would pursue what truly interest him.

The girl smiled, but ask yourself, are you interested in getting to know her?
Do you have time for it? Is there a reason why you must know her (perhaps to sharpen your rapport-building skills with strangers etc.)

It's really up to you. Don't model yourself as a 'don juan'.

Just do you. Whatever floats your boat.
 

scrouds

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Allurre said:
...It's really up to you. Don't model yourself as a 'don juan'.

Just do you. Whatever floats your boat.

I sure miss playing sim city 12 hrs a day. Goodbye real world.
 

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I'd smile and move on

It's rude to interupt someone on the phone

also, she might have just been being friendly

You'd probably get a negative response if you just start blabbing away at her while she's already busy keeping up another conversation

I for one hate it when two people try to talk to me at the same time.

You could watch and wait til she gets off the phone and casually pass by and try something then, but never interrupt a chick on the phone.
 

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tuff one...........causeits rude to talk on the phone and rude to ask the chic to hang up......................DRY ERASE BOARD............MIGHT WORK.

asking her something............might hang up.

following her.............exudes creepiness

WHAT ABOUT A MAGNETIC PULSE THAT turns off all electronic devices!!!!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scrouds

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hahah, i don't want to kill my cell phone either. There is no possibility of me reversing course and following her without major creep factor (its a walking path around a lake)

So either ask her something and see if the phone disappears (hey babe, do you like pie?) or just chill and stick to the chicks with dogs. The runners i don't bother with.

So far we're 1 and 1.
 

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Why not walk by, do the eye contact thing, get a smile, then come back a little later to see if she's still around?
 

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COD said:
WHAT ABOUT A MAGNETIC PULSE THAT turns off all electronic devices!!!!!!!!
Then she'd be pissed about her phone

and you couldn't get her number having destroyed all phones within radius of the blast
 

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JCballin88 said:
Why not walk by, do the eye contact thing, get a smile, then come back a little later to see if she's still around?

I got a smile and a hi while she was on the phone. That's whats throwing me off.... obvious signal of interest, but phone to ear is obvious signal of "don't bug me"
 
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