"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chicks on Cell Phones

scrouds

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Do you game them? Here's the scenario:

Taking a walk in the park, always fun to oogle opposing traffic, so I give this chick the once over (lets say 7~7.5) and smile at her. She smiles back and drops a hello as she's passing in the middle of her saying something on the phone.

So... does the Don Juan stop her and try and start a conversation?

Does he continue walking?

Or maybe something more obscure, like picking up a pinkie0thumb phone and start mining a phone conversation?

Ideas?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Allurre

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A 'don juan' would pursue what truly interest him.

The girl smiled, but ask yourself, are you interested in getting to know her?
Do you have time for it? Is there a reason why you must know her (perhaps to sharpen your rapport-building skills with strangers etc.)

It's really up to you. Don't model yourself as a 'don juan'.

Just do you. Whatever floats your boat.
 

scrouds

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Allurre said:
...It's really up to you. Don't model yourself as a 'don juan'.

Just do you. Whatever floats your boat.

I sure miss playing sim city 12 hrs a day. Goodbye real world.
 

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I'd smile and move on

It's rude to interupt someone on the phone

also, she might have just been being friendly

You'd probably get a negative response if you just start blabbing away at her while she's already busy keeping up another conversation

I for one hate it when two people try to talk to me at the same time.

You could watch and wait til she gets off the phone and casually pass by and try something then, but never interrupt a chick on the phone.
 

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tuff one...........causeits rude to talk on the phone and rude to ask the chic to hang up......................DRY ERASE BOARD............MIGHT WORK.

asking her something............might hang up.

following her.............exudes creepiness

WHAT ABOUT A MAGNETIC PULSE THAT turns off all electronic devices!!!!!!!!
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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scrouds

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hahah, i don't want to kill my cell phone either. There is no possibility of me reversing course and following her without major creep factor (its a walking path around a lake)

So either ask her something and see if the phone disappears (hey babe, do you like pie?) or just chill and stick to the chicks with dogs. The runners i don't bother with.

So far we're 1 and 1.
 

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Why not walk by, do the eye contact thing, get a smile, then come back a little later to see if she's still around?
 

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COD said:
WHAT ABOUT A MAGNETIC PULSE THAT turns off all electronic devices!!!!!!!!
Then she'd be pissed about her phone

and you couldn't get her number having destroyed all phones within radius of the blast
 

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JCballin88 said:
Why not walk by, do the eye contact thing, get a smile, then come back a little later to see if she's still around?

I got a smile and a hi while she was on the phone. That's whats throwing me off.... obvious signal of interest, but phone to ear is obvious signal of "don't bug me"
 
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