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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Chicks Keep Asking Me For Money (Sick Of It)!
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MoreThanSmooth
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Sorry if this is necromancy, but just to add my 2 cents: I've found women respect me more if I don't pay for stuff for them. If I'm in a relationship it's different (I think it's only decent to pay her meals/outing costs every now and then, and sometimes I'd buy her small gifts without prompting just to express affection. Ideally she'd also be doing the same for me).
But my personal rule is that if any girl wants me to buy her material stuff as an actual part of our relationship, she's a waste of my time and attention. I don't care if she's a gorgeous model, that doesn't mean she can just turn me into a meal ticket. If you're just a dollar sign to someone, you're not going to get their respect.
IMO once you start buying stuff just to keep a girl hanging out with you, you start becoming like those basement dwelling guys that spend all their money buying random camgirls they'll never meet s**t because they're desperately horny. Even if you have sex with her, it's not you she's screwing, it's your wallet.
If a hot girl thinks you're a meal ticket and you put your foot down and say "Halves?" she knows you're not a cash cow. If she's a genuine money leech she'll move on to a dumb guy with a fat wallet (no loss to you). If she's a cool girl who was just trying it on because she knows she's hot, she'll probably be impressed by your balls and like the fact you're not trying to buy her.
But my personal rule is that if any girl wants me to buy her material stuff as an actual part of our relationship, she's a waste of my time and attention. I don't care if she's a gorgeous model, that doesn't mean she can just turn me into a meal ticket. If you're just a dollar sign to someone, you're not going to get their respect.
IMO once you start buying stuff just to keep a girl hanging out with you, you start becoming like those basement dwelling guys that spend all their money buying random camgirls they'll never meet s**t because they're desperately horny. Even if you have sex with her, it's not you she's screwing, it's your wallet.
If a hot girl thinks you're a meal ticket and you put your foot down and say "Halves?" she knows you're not a cash cow. If she's a genuine money leech she'll move on to a dumb guy with a fat wallet (no loss to you). If she's a cool girl who was just trying it on because she knows she's hot, she'll probably be impressed by your balls and like the fact you're not trying to buy her.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
this is the main problem with picking up girls using your money, if it lasts past hookups then you gotta actually spend your money on her
if you get the girl with just looks and charm whilst pretending to be a hobo or something you won't have this problem
if you get the girl with just looks and charm whilst pretending to be a hobo or something you won't have this problem