"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chicks Keep Asking Me For Money (Sick Of It)!

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LOL @Tenacity bro where do you find these women?

I've never had a girl I'm ****ing ask me for money... and I basically only date black and latina women.
You answered your own question.

Guys, if no girl ever asked you for money you could probably date hotter women. You push the envelope to the money point and then you know where you stand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why are you lying? I never went to a mountain and never spent that much on a date.

I told you guys here about one of the girls who asked for money (and it was a couple hundred she was asking for and I dumped her on the spot). The others did not ask for money. I love how you guys selectively hear what you want to hear, and then add outright lies through your teeth.

What we see here is that @The Diver makes less than $40,000 per year. Get a job.
Neil, what happened to you favorite girl and love of your life?

We havent seen new pics of her. So was wondering if she still with you. Or she only comes when you offer gifts

To OP if you make money a part of your relationship, expect them to ask for it.
 

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Neil, what happened to you favorite girl and love of your life?

We havent seen new pics of her. So was wondering if she still with you. Or she only comes when you offer gifts
After I was banned she and I celebrated our one year anniversary together. She sat on my lap both days, one year apart and it felt exactly the same.

I did publish a photo of her yesterday, rated 98 on Photofeeler, and making the top 10 in Attractive and Combined Score. She just contacted me actually, and she used the word love three times in the first sentence. She's still the most beautiful girl I know.
 

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After I was banned she and I celebrated our one year anniversary together. She sat on my lap both days, one year apart and it felt exactly the same.

I did publish a photo of her yesterday, rated 98 on Photofeeler, and making the top 10 in Attractive and Combined Score. She just contacted me actually, and she used the word love three times in the first sentence. She's still the most beautiful girl I know.
Make her cvm like a maniac.
 

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Make her cvm like a maniac.
I was always totally devoted to just that. From the first date to the most recent, I genuinely didn't concentrate on whether I came, only whether she did.

I managed to have over a year of nothing but special dates with her, photographing her every step along the way, capturing her in her prime years of 20-22.

I realized I have an enormous power over her now. A couple months ago I had to fire her when she was late to a photo shoot, but then a couple weeks later I sent her a photo that I had taken of her one year previously, and I reflected on that date. She was extremely nostalgic, and her reply basically said "I love you, I love you, I love you". But I didn't respond.

A few days ago I ran into her friend who pulled me aside wanted to talk about her (little did I know my girl was in the room watching us at the time). I applied Poker face and said very little. But when I got home I found messages from both girls, one minute apart, at 3am.

Fateful coincidences like that seem to keep us together.

But I was out of work for a couple months and then found work but I've been traveling for business a lot. I have to head to Canada in the morning, after a recent trip to Detroit. A man must focus on his mission first and foremost.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why are you lying? I never went to a mountain and never spent that much on a date.
@Bigniel post from August:
"4) August 2017 - She reached out (now single) and I found her with my ESP a week later (the day of the Eclipse). I asked her out again yesterday (for an overnight trip to a lake resort two hours away) and she said yes."

You're right, it was a lake resort not mountain resort. F**k, what a "lier I am".
(And btw, I have a job, thank you)
 

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This reminds me of a friend of mine who was 52 at the time dating a 16 year old in Ukraine. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: He was banging away (he said that sexing up young women cured him of his problem that had required Viagra :lol::rofl:), but his gal always wanted to go shopping. He said it cost him about $700 a month to keep her happy, to which I replied that he could have found "other means" to bang away.
 

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But they do do the most important job that a wife does ...
Some women perceive men in the way that they think they could sex anytime if they wanted. Thats why they look for something more conditional like guys with money, or trading sex for relationship.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No, they don't cook, they don't clean, they don't do shyt.

Most of them just sit up there like some fvcking Beauty Queen or something.....it's like their fvcking mentality is that I'm already GETTING what I'm "supposed to get" by just her chilling with me "in general" and fvcking me.

It's the stupidest shyt I've ever seen in my fvcking life. I swear sometimes I just want to....urghhhhhhh
This is why you’re so angry. You’re dating the wrong demographic of women. They don’t do ****, why would you even think about giving them a relationship.

If you’re cooking they better be doing your laundry and cleaning the place.
 
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This is why you’re so angry. You’re dating the wrong demographic of women. They don’t do ****, why would you even think about giving them a relationship.

If you’re cooking they better be doing your laundry and cleaning the place.
Am I the only one who doesn't need them to cook or clean? I need sex. That's it.
 

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Guys, if no girl ever asked you for money you could probably date hotter women.
I'll take that as a compliment :)

Am I the only one who doesn't need them to cook or clean? I need sex. That's it.
I wouldn't say I need them to clean, but it's nice that they are invested enough in you to try to help you out. I see it like they are giving you a gift of sorts. I like to cook though, and usually think that I am better at it, so I will do that as often as not.
 

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Are you flashing money at them on dates?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So they see me driving the similar Sports Car with the chrome rims
They don't want to fvck you, they want to fvck your car. Any chic that drops panties for a set of chrome rims ought to tell you the quality of chic you're dealing with from the jump.
 

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If you meet a girl and you show her money, whether you say it verbally or by wearing flashy outfits, then she'll see you as money.

Seems harmless when you mention what you do for a living, but these b*tches know very well which professions get paid alot of money.
 
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If you meet a girl and you show her money, whether you say it verbally or by wearing flashy outfits, then she'll see you as money.

Seems harmless when you mention what you do for a living, but these b*tches know very well which professions get paid alot of money.
But the problem is...

How do get them to drop the panties WITHOUT money?

Nobody PREFERS to spend money.
 

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Why did Tenacity and Big Neil get banned?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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