Chicks in service jobs

[timmylivingalie]

Most of the chicks I talk with work in stores, gas stations, or are waitresses. What I am wondering about is how often I should go into the businesses they work in without seeming needy or worse? Once a week?

 

[Digitz]

This sounds like an awful idea in general. First off, these women are broke.

Avoid broke, avoid hardluck. There are exceptions, but this is a standard to live by.

Why don't you focus on women that are healthy, lively, attractive and smart. These are women that take care of themselves and have the money to do so. Yoga classes, bootcamps, paddle boarding lessons, dancing lessons, shoppers at wholefoods...whatever.

If you're really set on these service women, go in when you want to...Pump gas when you have to and grab her number and get out. Go eat your cheeseburger when you're hungry, get her number and get out...

Right? Does that sound too obvious? Then you're an idiot.

 

[timmylivingalie]

This sounds like an awful idea in general. First off, these women are broke.

Avoid broke, avoid hardluck. There are exceptions, but this is a standard to live by.

Why don't you focus on women that are healthy, lively, attractive and smart. These are women that take care of themselves and have the money to do so. Yoga classes, bootcamps, paddle boarding lessons, dancing lessons, shoppers at wholefoods...whatever.

If you're really set on these service women, go in when you want to...Pump gas when you have to and grab her number and get out. Go eat your cheeseburger when you're hungry, get her number and get out...

Right? Does that sound too obvious? Then you're an idiot.

Dont have the time or funds for luxuries like that.

 

[scrouds]

Most of the chicks I talk with work in stores, gas stations, or are waitresses. What I am wondering about is how often I should go into the businesses they work in without seeming needy or worse? Once a week?

Go in when you're hungry, when you need gas. As a regular, they will remember you but not give a shiit about you.

Strike when the iron is hot. first or second time seeing her max.

 

[Zarky]

Do I really need to post this again?

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/dont-hit-on-women-who-are-paid-to-be-nice-to-you/

EDIT:

If, OP, you mean you meet these women outside their jobs, then the answer is you should NEVER visit them at their jobs. Never.

 

[timmylivingalie]

Do I really need to post this again?

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/dont-hit-on-women-who-are-paid-to-be-nice-to-you/

EDIT:

If, OP, you mean you meet these women outside their jobs, then the answer is you should NEVER visit them at their jobs. Never.

I learned my lesson with strippers, waitresses, and bartenders a long time ago. I have had success with chicks working in stores in the past.

 

[bluenorther]

Why don't you focus on women that are healthy, lively, attractive and smart. These are women that take care of themselves and have the money to do so. Yoga classes, bootcamps, paddle boarding lessons, dancing lessons, shoppers at wholefoods...whatever.

Because these women are usually MARRIED and often seen (in my neighborhood, anyway) driving strollers.

 

[scrouds]

Move to where the single girls live.

This is probably the single best thing you can do outside of learning game in the first place.

 

[timmylivingalie]

If I go into a store bust on the chick working there she gets attracted to me and we have good rapport. How long should I wait before returning to the store? Is all Im wondering. Dont see why I am being attacked for asking that?

 

[Zarky]

Because you shouldn't be hitting on broads while they're working. Hit on women who aren't paid to be nice to you. I don't see why that's so difficult to understand.

 

[scrouds]

You should get the number right then and there. ALWAYS STRIKE WHILE THE IRON IS HOT.

Don't listen to zarky, he's advocating what amounts to a self limitation that he might place on himself and thinks you should too. Some people try to impose their values onto others, and the best thing to do is ignore them when they do so.

 

[Zarky]

It's funny yet sad that guys can't see what colossal sad-sacks they are when they can only hit on women who are forced to be nice to customers because they'll get fired if they're not.

How can you fail to see the utterly pathetic nature of hitting on women who HAVE to interact with you and who have to be nice to you as well? How can you not understand that? Does everyone here have an IQ of 93 or something?

Any pretty girl who's in customer service has the biggest shield you can ever imagine. It's not a "b*tch shield" because they have to be nice to you or they'll get fired. But it's a shield nonetheless. And it's huge, so huge that it's an utter waste of everyone's time for you to bother with it.

Do you guys have absolutely zero experience with women? I do not understand how you can fail to understand this fact.

By all means, go to a mall and hit on every retail girl in the place. See what happens. Yes, you might get a number, and you might even get a date. But the percentages are so low that you'll have more luck approaching random women in the street.

And besides that... it's pathetic. The girl HAS to talk with you. Are you kidding me? Your seduction skill-set is so piss-poor that you can only "approach" women who have no choice but to engage with you? This place is so depressing.

 

[timmylivingalie]

It's funny yet sad that guys can't see what colossal sad-sacks they are when they can only hit on women who are forced to be nice to customers because they'll get fired if they're not.

How can you fail to see the utterly pathetic nature of hitting on women who HAVE to interact with you and who have to be nice to you as well? How can you not understand that? Does everyone here have an IQ of 93 or something?

Any pretty girl who's in customer service has the biggest shield you can ever imagine. It's not a "b*tch shield" because they have to be nice to you or they'll get fired. But it's a shield nonetheless. And it's huge, so huge that it's an utter waste of everyone's time for you to bother with it.

Do you guys have absolutely zero experience with women? I do not understand how you can fail to understand this fact.

By all means, go to a mall and hit on every retail girl in the place. See what happens. Yes, you might get a number, and you might even get a date. But the percentages are so low that you'll have more luck approaching random women in the street.

And besides that... it's pathetic. The girl HAS to talk with you. Are you kidding me? Your seduction skill-set is so piss-poor that you can only "approach" women who have no choice but to engage with you? This place is so depressing.

I walked into the store yesterday around 75 customers in there and about 9 cashiers working. The minute I walked in she made eye contact and started talking to me 25 feet away while she waiting on customers.

 

[scrouds]

Zarky,

If you can't tell the difference between a girl that's paid to be nice to you and a girl that's in to you, you really need to brush up on your chick reading skills.

If I see a girl I like, I go after her. Yes, even cashiers. Stop hating.

 

[iqqi]

You can go back in there tomorrow- if she is interested, then she is interested. If you read her right, sounds like that is the case. Go in soon, and if she is working, get in her line to buy a pack of gum or anything, and say "hey, why don't you and me go get a drink sometime?" and flash your pearly whites. She either says yes or no.

You're welcome, that will be $20 payable via Paypal.