"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chicks in on and off relationships

djjizzyjeff

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What's the boards take on chicks in on and off relationships.

Would you even bother with the chick?

IMO I wouldn't. To me it's a waste of time except possibly feeding her ego or being a one nighter (which some may not mind) though I'm not the type to bother with chicks with BFs even on and off ones. (Especially if they've known each other and dated for a long time.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Uncharted

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Would I casually date one? Sure - if she's hot and I get along with her and she's good in bed.

Exclusive? Probably not. Depends.
 

pinkfl

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I always thought a girl in an on again off again relationship had low self esteem and doesn't have enough gumption to just be single and wait for something better. I don't think they are bad people but in general that's the type of person who if they ever get in a serious relationship the second they start to feel "neglected" they will seek attention from an ex for validation.
 
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