"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chicks in on and off relationships

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djjizzyjeff

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What's the boards take on chicks in on and off relationships.

Would you even bother with the chick?

IMO I wouldn't. To me it's a waste of time except possibly feeding her ego or being a one nighter (which some may not mind) though I'm not the type to bother with chicks with BFs even on and off ones. (Especially if they've known each other and dated for a long time.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would I casually date one? Sure - if she's hot and I get along with her and she's good in bed.

Exclusive? Probably not. Depends.
 
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I always thought a girl in an on again off again relationship had low self esteem and doesn't have enough gumption to just be single and wait for something better. I don't think they are bad people but in general that's the type of person who if they ever get in a serious relationship the second they start to feel "neglected" they will seek attention from an ex for validation.
 
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