"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chicks Heavily Flirts With You

verysuave

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This chick at work, slaps me in the ass, (so i slap her back) makes all kinds of sexual innuendo. "Santa clause is cumming to town" she says shiet like that and i'd amplify it by saying "Whats santa clause doing again"? and she'd be like "comming, Comming in you" and i go "No, you"

How would you play this chick? She prolly just teasing huh? What's the best way to isolate this chick at work and score on this broad. I seriously don't know what to do.. because we would have alone moments at work and it would kinda tense up meaning (im thinking in my head, just start making a move then lead to making out? which ive never done)

Anyway, for those experienced guys who have done it at work (and no, i dont care about this job) how does it normally go?

tnxxx
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alle_Gory

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Well, since you have a sh*tty job....

Just keep it up until you see some interest, not just playing around. Then get her digits so you can hang out as "friends". Run the regular game after.

You want to do it this way because:

1. You need to confirm that she's interested. If she's not prepare for drama at work. Play it conservative, patience is key.
2. If she's interested she will let you know. She'll hang around, she'll try and talk to you not just be friendly. Reciprocate and have a decent conversation other than just work stuff.


Be patient. I know what its like to jump the gun on this. Not a good result. You can't just stop talking to her if things go sour since you work together.
 

Kal0051

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yeah, get her digits and play it as if she was any other girl.
 

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I think this could be a co-worker with benefits relationship, she seems like she likes being talked dirty to. I think you could take this fast, you know the whisper in her ear deal. I dunno, what do I know, i'm new.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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