"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chicks Heavily Flirts With You

verysuave

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This chick at work, slaps me in the ass, (so i slap her back) makes all kinds of sexual innuendo. "Santa clause is cumming to town" she says shiet like that and i'd amplify it by saying "Whats santa clause doing again"? and she'd be like "comming, Comming in you" and i go "No, you"

How would you play this chick? She prolly just teasing huh? What's the best way to isolate this chick at work and score on this broad. I seriously don't know what to do.. because we would have alone moments at work and it would kinda tense up meaning (im thinking in my head, just start making a move then lead to making out? which ive never done)

Anyway, for those experienced guys who have done it at work (and no, i dont care about this job) how does it normally go?

tnxxx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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Well, since you have a sh*tty job....

Just keep it up until you see some interest, not just playing around. Then get her digits so you can hang out as "friends". Run the regular game after.

You want to do it this way because:

1. You need to confirm that she's interested. If she's not prepare for drama at work. Play it conservative, patience is key.
2. If she's interested she will let you know. She'll hang around, she'll try and talk to you not just be friendly. Reciprocate and have a decent conversation other than just work stuff.


Be patient. I know what its like to jump the gun on this. Not a good result. You can't just stop talking to her if things go sour since you work together.
 

Kal0051

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yeah, get her digits and play it as if she was any other girl.
 

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I think this could be a co-worker with benefits relationship, she seems like she likes being talked dirty to. I think you could take this fast, you know the whisper in her ear deal. I dunno, what do I know, i'm new.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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