"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chicks Heavily Flirts With You

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This chick at work, slaps me in the ass, (so i slap her back) makes all kinds of sexual innuendo. "Santa clause is cumming to town" she says shiet like that and i'd amplify it by saying "Whats santa clause doing again"? and she'd be like "comming, Comming in you" and i go "No, you"

How would you play this chick? She prolly just teasing huh? What's the best way to isolate this chick at work and score on this broad. I seriously don't know what to do.. because we would have alone moments at work and it would kinda tense up meaning (im thinking in my head, just start making a move then lead to making out? which ive never done)

Anyway, for those experienced guys who have done it at work (and no, i dont care about this job) how does it normally go?

tnxxx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, since you have a sh*tty job....

Just keep it up until you see some interest, not just playing around. Then get her digits so you can hang out as "friends". Run the regular game after.

You want to do it this way because:

1. You need to confirm that she's interested. If she's not prepare for drama at work. Play it conservative, patience is key.
2. If she's interested she will let you know. She'll hang around, she'll try and talk to you not just be friendly. Reciprocate and have a decent conversation other than just work stuff.


Be patient. I know what its like to jump the gun on this. Not a good result. You can't just stop talking to her if things go sour since you work together.
 
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yeah, get her digits and play it as if she was any other girl.
 
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I think this could be a co-worker with benefits relationship, she seems like she likes being talked dirty to. I think you could take this fast, you know the whisper in her ear deal. I dunno, what do I know, i'm new.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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