"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chicks Groping Me But Won't Talk To Me

thickandcreamy

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One thing which annoys me and which I don't get, is chicks who get their jollies rubbing against you but unwilling to talk to you. This is chicks who have a mile of room, but choose to walk by and rub their crotch against your ass, or rub their tits on your back as they walk by, or doing the classic ass grab without so much as saying a word to you.

What's wrong with these chicks? They're attracted enough to grab you, but they won't stop for a second to smile and make eye contact? I'm not about to go chasing these girls all around the club like a puppy dog either after I get grabbed for the umpteenth time either.

How do I capitalize on these situations? Should I just grab these girls by the arm as they pass by if they grope me?

T 'n C
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlackJackal

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Talk is cheap, thats all I can say. And the way I see it, if a girls touches me, I always touch her back.
 

LaoDa

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screw them -
I always grab back though
its like a green light to sexualy harass for a second or 2
but don't give it too much thought
 

Bussey

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You can do one of two things.

1. Touch her back which involves trailing behind her a bit or trying to remember her face for when you decide to mill about the bar/club.

2. As she's walking away, you stay planted, turn your head slightly and say something C+F just loud enough for her to hear some of it.. but not too loud so she might have to turn around, come back and ask what you said. If she turns back you own her because now she looks like the puppy dog.

Example of something you can say - 'Hey next time rub a little lower on me okay?'
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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