"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chicks Groping Me But Won't Talk To Me

thickandcreamy

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One thing which annoys me and which I don't get, is chicks who get their jollies rubbing against you but unwilling to talk to you. This is chicks who have a mile of room, but choose to walk by and rub their crotch against your ass, or rub their tits on your back as they walk by, or doing the classic ass grab without so much as saying a word to you.

What's wrong with these chicks? They're attracted enough to grab you, but they won't stop for a second to smile and make eye contact? I'm not about to go chasing these girls all around the club like a puppy dog either after I get grabbed for the umpteenth time either.

How do I capitalize on these situations? Should I just grab these girls by the arm as they pass by if they grope me?

T 'n C
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BlackJackal

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Talk is cheap, thats all I can say. And the way I see it, if a girls touches me, I always touch her back.
 

LaoDa

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screw them -
I always grab back though
its like a green light to sexualy harass for a second or 2
but don't give it too much thought
 

Bussey

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You can do one of two things.

1. Touch her back which involves trailing behind her a bit or trying to remember her face for when you decide to mill about the bar/club.

2. As she's walking away, you stay planted, turn your head slightly and say something C+F just loud enough for her to hear some of it.. but not too loud so she might have to turn around, come back and ask what you said. If she turns back you own her because now she looks like the puppy dog.

Example of something you can say - 'Hey next time rub a little lower on me okay?'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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