"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DogFashionDisco

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Ok, I haven't posted in awhile, been busy with stuff. Anyways, I've been kind of slacking off with my DJ skills, and I hope to start taking this more seriously from now on.

Today during a class of mine, we went to go watch people try out for this talent show bull****. Kind of boring. Anyways, I was sitting there, and these chicks call me over to sit with them. So I went over and sat with them, and being my dumbass self, I was kind of shy and stuff. I said of few things, one chick said her ass hurts (the floor was kind of hard and uncomfortable), which I should've responded with "I can rub it and make it feel better", and we watched this gay audition.

I think it's time I try the DJ Bootcamp, so that I know what to do in these situations, damn it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's going on here?
 

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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco

I said of few things, one chick said her ass hurts (the floor was kind of hard and uncomfortable), which I should've responded with "I can rub it and make it feel better"

i think "sit on my lap" would have been better.
 

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her: my ass hurts
ME: dont look at me, I havent even started pounding at it yet
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
her: my ass hurts
ME: dont look at me, I havent even started pounding at it yet
NO, that would get u slapped, dummy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by dadmonson
NO, that would get u slapped, dummy.
HOPELESS.....afraid of getting slaped by a girl....you need some help.
 

StrangeButTrue

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Who's afraid? And he's right, that would just scare her away if you've just met her.
 

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Originally posted by StrangeButTrue
Who's afraid? And he's right, that would just scare her away if you've just met her.
no, not necessarily...:p
 
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