Chicks & Classes

[CBear]

Don't want to go too deep into this but basically have every class in college w/ this really shy chick. Based on my past experience, she's really, really into me. Small overview is that she tries to start conversation with me, sits by me in classes, always waits after class to talk with her, & laughs at literally every joke I make. Even caught her friend, who was sitting with us not too long ago (and saw me with her once before) keep staring at me. She was cool though. Anyways, I told her a couple days ago that we gotta hang out 1 day and she gave a very enthusiastic "yeah".

Problem is, we have all classes together and we have the same major in school. I wouldn't mind going out with her but I've read and been told not to ever get involved with chicks in classes as it would get awkward if **** went down the wrong way. I just don't know whether to pull the trigger now or wait a couple weeks when classes end to ask her out bowling or something like that. I've been in classes with her for a couple of weeks already but started talking to her a lot more 1 week ago to open her up. Also worth noting is that we'll be in the same program for the next 2 years.

*Just for references since I've been a long time reader and fan of sosuave; 21 year old, dated many girls, learned a lot but never had a full on relationship, won't go into details about looks as I have modeled before and plan on doing so in the future, natural bodybuilder as well. I've grown mentally so much in the past couple of years and truly believe that I am close to reaching my peak in self confidence (while trying to be humble of course) and I owe this to a lot of things & people. I also follow the teachings of Coach Corey Wayne.

Any advice would be so much appreciated! Ik most of ya'll are pros and know exactly what you're talking about!!!

 

[Fireballs]

Who cares if you have classes together .. take her out for a drink and get her back to your place.

Don't agree with some of Corey Wayne's stuff .. better off reading rational male/chateau heartiste/book of pook ..

good luck

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Who gives a flying **** if she’s in your classes dude. Like if **** goes down, the only thing that’ll happen will be a test of yourself and your grit to see what type of person you REALLY are. In other words, you get a possibility of seeing any more weaknesses you may have that you never thought you had before. It’ll test your social skills too and can teach how to deal with things under high pressure situations too. How in the hell is that a downside? Plus, it’s all because you got some ***** and the ***** went a little crazy from how hard you ****ed her. At least, that’s how I’d say to look at it lol. Id say to go for it champ. You don’t even know if it’ll go bad to begin with anyway so it’s just you worrying over something that might not even happen at all hahaha

 

[Von]

You told her to hang out with you.

You've made your decision.

Now, act.... Ask her out for coffee, drinks, studying together. (Next time you see her in class... if she sits next to you, talk to her casually and remind her, than take her number, than have your class, after class talk to her normally..... If she sits further or elsewhere, go see her after the class and talk to her casually than number close)

You are a MAN!
You've said you would hang with her.
NOW DO IT

Trust me, you'll feel better.

Cause, if you don't.. She will feel betrayed and the awkwardness will explode..... Safe yourself the suffering.

This girl might become your ally, your best friend, your wife, friends with benefits etc... only way to know is to ask her out and live. Always do what you WANT.
Action over words.

The more you delay, the worst it will get for you and for her.... You don't want that.

BTW... you have the perfect reasons to talk to her 1) all classes together 2) same major 3) she likes you and her friends know you 4) you like her 5) you said you would ask her out

You have a once in lifetime opportunity.

Better take it.

Being careful is the worst thing you can do in love (cause it means you put walls and that screw everything).

Take your opportunity, you don't have to think too much about it. Just have fun, it might work or it will not.. But the girl will love/respect you from DOING IT/ACT

Be easy about it. You and Her are young.. Its suppose to be fun

 

[Masculinity]

The situation described in this thread is the equivalent of getting pvssy on a silver platter and then refusing to do anything fearing it will be awkward if it goes from wet to dry.

 

[marmel75]

I dont get these dudes mindsets these days...that decline in testosterone levels must be reaching the point of no return...

 

[CBear]

I dont get these dudes mindsets these days...that decline in testosterone levels must be reaching the point of no return...

LOL, I hope that's not the case, idk how I've been so goal oriented and a natural bodybuilder for this long with almost no testosterone.

More inexperience than anything, never been in this certain situation before, which is why I asked for advice.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Who cares if you have classes together .. take her out for a drink and get her back to your place.

Don't agree with some of Corey Wayne's stuff .. better off reading rational male/chateau heartiste/book of pook ..

good luck

+ 1

Worst case scenario, you can watch some rsdTyler and terrorize your classmates afterwards.

 

[devilkingx2]

Don't want to go too deep into this but basically have every class in college w/ this really shy chick. Based on my past experience, she's really, really into me. Small overview is that she tries to start conversation with me, sits by me in classes, always waits after class to talk with her, & laughs at literally every joke I make. Even caught her friend, who was sitting with us not too long ago (and saw me with her once before) keep staring at me. She was cool though. Anyways, I told her a couple days ago that we gotta hang out 1 day and she gave a very enthusiastic "yeah".

Problem is, we have all classes together and we have the same major in school. I wouldn't mind going out with her but I've read and been told not to ever get involved with chicks in classes as it would get awkward if **** went down the wrong way. I just don't know whether to pull the trigger now or wait a couple weeks when classes end to ask her out bowling or something like that. I've been in classes with her for a couple of weeks already but started talking to her a lot more 1 week ago to open her up. Also worth noting is that we'll be in the same program for the next 2 years.

*Just for references since I've been a long time reader and fan of sosuave; 21 year old, dated many girls, learned a lot but never had a full on relationship, won't go into details about looks as I have modeled before and plan on doing so in the future, natural bodybuilder as well. I've grown mentally so much in the past couple of years and truly believe that I am close to reaching my peak in self confidence (while trying to be humble of course) and I owe this to a lot of things & people. I also follow the teachings of Coach Corey Wayne.

Any advice would be so much appreciated! Ik most of ya'll are pros and know exactly what you're talking about!!!

The only thing you have to worry about is if it's impossible to avoid her and her groups/associates

If you're not in any group projects/study groups/clubs/assigned seating/social groups of any kind in general like her being in the sister sorority to your fraternity (if the sorority is small) or anything along those lines, then there's absolutely nothing to worry about.

If she's like, cheer captain and the most popular girl at school and getting on her **** list means people will throw food at you and refuse to sit with you then don't do it, but since she's probably not you have nothing to worry about