"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chicks and personal trainers

Naughty Ninja

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Any of you dudes feel that possibly a lot of chicks hook up with their personal trainers?


As far as a chick you are dating or seeing. Would it bother you if she had a personal trainer?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If they are good looking and ripped, I don't see why not. Talks centered around their client's body can easily be escalated. From what I've seen, those that need PT aren't ones that I would hook up with in the first place.

I've recently started dating a PT, who says she gets gawked and hit on frequently. I'm holding the frame well, but sometimes I need to b!tch slap myself from putting her on a pedestal.
 

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My buddy use to be a personal trainer and on occasion he said a chicks would basically offer themselves to him. He's even told me of a really popular personal trainer crossing the line and banging this married woman. Eventually she ended up divorcing her husband who she was with for 10 years with 2 children.
 

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They do. I was a personal trainer for about 2 years, have hooked up with several clients, prospects, and have had to turn down offers (not hot enough for me or not worth the drama that I could sense would follow).

Proximity breeds closeness. Couple that with 'all attention on her' (part of your job) without the neediness and guess what? You have a volatile recipe for seduction.

PS. don't think of becoming a personal trainer for this reason. There are easier ways and jobs to get laid (like bartending). Only do it if you actually like training people. It's not an easy job.
 

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Of course they hook up with their personal trainers, where do you think the site Hot Chicks With Douchebags came from? ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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