"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any of you dudes feel that possibly a lot of chicks hook up with their personal trainers?


As far as a chick you are dating or seeing. Would it bother you if she had a personal trainer?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If they are good looking and ripped, I don't see why not. Talks centered around their client's body can easily be escalated. From what I've seen, those that need PT aren't ones that I would hook up with in the first place.

I've recently started dating a PT, who says she gets gawked and hit on frequently. I'm holding the frame well, but sometimes I need to b!tch slap myself from putting her on a pedestal.
 
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My buddy use to be a personal trainer and on occasion he said a chicks would basically offer themselves to him. He's even told me of a really popular personal trainer crossing the line and banging this married woman. Eventually she ended up divorcing her husband who she was with for 10 years with 2 children.
 
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They do. I was a personal trainer for about 2 years, have hooked up with several clients, prospects, and have had to turn down offers (not hot enough for me or not worth the drama that I could sense would follow).

Proximity breeds closeness. Couple that with 'all attention on her' (part of your job) without the neediness and guess what? You have a volatile recipe for seduction.

PS. don't think of becoming a personal trainer for this reason. There are easier ways and jobs to get laid (like bartending). Only do it if you actually like training people. It's not an easy job.
 
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Of course they hook up with their personal trainers, where do you think the site Hot Chicks With Douchebags came from? ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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