"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chicken for breakfast?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
However, while people find this weird, I always eat full meals for breakfast.
Specifically, there are almost always leftovers from last nights dinner that I have. Today breakfast was a full serving of salmon and rice, a few days ago was chicken, and before that it was pork chops and potatos.
Maybe unusual, but it works great. I have tons of energy for the whole morning and this way I don't get hungry until lunch, where as if I just had fruit or cereal, I'd be starving by 10 am.
I don't think it will fail. Maybe its a Southern thing but chicken biscuits for breakfast are a hot seller. Ever heard of Chick Fil A? It's a chicken chain that serves them for breakfast and I've never seen one not packed in the mornings. I know handfuls of people that go every morning for one and i know of lots of colleges that have them on campus
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I prefer tuna, spinach, tomato and balsalmic vinegar to start my day off right though. It's the brekfast of champions!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Peanut butter and honey on toast is usually what I eat when I need a substantial breakfast.