"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chick writes about online dating messages she has received

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GS750

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Haha that's why I like to stay direct. All of those messages were lame as hell. Thanks for posting.
 

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Writer of that article is obviously fat. Any unfat woman on an online dating site not out in the boonies will get at least 130 messages a week, not a month. Most of the more in demand women I've dated from OLD were getting 100 messages a day. I did a fake profile with one of the hotter ones for kicks and we were getting 100 messages an -hour-. Writer's poor results are explained by her flappity thighs and rolls in all likelihood. Either that or she lives in a rural area or just straight up lying about how many replies she got.
 

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Katey hasn't been banged in a while and all the estrogen buildup from lack of orgasms has turned her into a cünty cünt. Dr. Patton's Rx is a human male penis to be inserted into her taco down to the balls repeatedly until happiness ensues.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm still surprised in this tough economy, chicks keep getting paid for their self-pity diatribes AND get emo-validation at the same time through the comments.
 

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This b*tch reminds me of 1/3 of the women I encountered on a dating site whose entitled/not impressed/bitter towards men's shaped personality comes through every word they type.

I bet in real life she's extremely shy and doesn't criticize much male encounters/interactions and feels genuinely flattered. I swear online turns women into fake better versions of themselves. No wonder they love all the social media crap.
 

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And the other obvious thing that needs to be said is this: You can't write an interesting, engaging, and personal message to someone if their profile is vague and lacks detail. That's a general point; based on the messages she cited it sounds like there was enough detail in her profile to do that.

Furthermore Katey, if we're going to be legit about this, let's see some of the brilliantly crafted intro messages that you sent out to the men on the site? Ohhhhhh, that's right.

Hypocrite.
 
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She should write an article about this forum, I can hear the feminist spittle foaming from her tight little lips as she pounds away at the keyboard in her emasculating self aggrandizing way as her vibrators batteries slow discharge.
 
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