"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chick won't get off my nuts

Bling

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There's some girl that has a real vegence against me. I made some comment at 730 am in the morning about her mother being a housewife, and for a year and half now she's held a grudge against me. We have the same friends, and I got invited to a mutual friends birthday party. I got invited via facebook, and she's talking **** about me. I know at the party she's going to try and talk more smack. I don't know if to ignore her and laugh at her to make it seem like she's desperate to get my attention, or take it and then finally blow up on her not having her expect it. We're going to different colleges, and this will be the last time I speak to her. Plus, what's pissing me off is my boy is letting her talk this smack because she's a 9. He knows he could shut her down by calling her out, but he's picking a ho before a bro.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nubian-knight

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Bling said:
There's some girl that has a real vegence against me. I made some comment at 730 am in the morning about her mother being a housewife, and for a year and half now she's held a grudge against me. We have the same friends, and I got invited to a mutual friends birthday party. I got invited via facebook, and she's talking **** about me. I know at the party she's going to try and talk more smack. I don't know if to ignore her and laugh at her to make it seem like she's desperate to get my attention, or take it and then finally blow up on her not having her expect it. We're going to different colleges, and this will be the last time I speak to her. Plus, what's pissing me off is my boy is letting her talk this smack because she's a 9. He knows he could shut her down by calling her out, but he's picking a ho before a bro.

why are you depending on your boy to shut her up?

tell her to stfu and get her panties out of a bunch and then ignore her until she has something positive to say
 

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be a man and just ignore her. Eventually she will find another drama that interests her more. But she won't if you act like a girl and be upset about what she is doing.
 

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depends if you like drama or not. looks like you might cause shes getting to you. Ive dealt with ch1cks that talk sh1t i call them out then we love each other afterwards. Like we talk mad sh1t about each other then we hang out all the time. Its up to you. If you dont give them the drama they will find it from someone else. If you are going to call her out be careful not to say way too fvcked up sh1t. Just tell her to stop talkin sh1t and who the fvck is she to run her mouth like that. Just lay off the total personal attacks otherwise she will get you back later on.
 
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