"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chick With Headphones

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Sometimes when im on the train i always see hot babes listening to music. now this is a negative somtimes because when i want to spit game, they have to take off their earphones and all just to hear what im saying and already they are some what irritated. how do i go about this?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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^ Or they're just bored. I listen to music when I'm bored.

Black Jesus (such an awesome name), just get right in front of 'em or next to them and make fun of them. Pretend to bob your head to the music, or, if you can hear the song, comment on it.

Side tip though: don't treat it as "spitting game". You end up in this trap where you act like talking to women requires you to turn on some "game" switch. Just treat it like you're messing with a friend.

Amo
 

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amohield said:
^ Or they're just bored. I listen to music when I'm bored.

Black Jesus (such an awesome name), just get right in front of 'em or next to them and make fun of them. Pretend to bob your head to the music, or, if you can hear the song, comment on it.

Side tip though: don't treat it as "spitting game". You end up in this trap where you act like talking to women requires you to turn on some "game" switch. Just treat it like you're messing with a friend.

Amo
lol thanks its a pretty cool name and yea i should stop treating it like a game
 

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f283000 said:
For every girl wearing headphones out there you will find 10 that aren't.

Why put yourself in situations where you are less likely to succeed?
literally every girl my age 15 wears some sort of headphone/earphone due to it being a technological era and due to the fact that public transportations are slow and gets really boring
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm surprised this is a thread honestly.

I've approached girls on their phones, at their jobs, and in mixed groups, so don't complain about a girl with their earphones in.

I mean it's really as simple as sitting next to the girl and gesturing to take her earphones out.

Or you could be more of a d*** (as I tend to do), and take out one of her earphones and listen to her music then comment on it or something.

This is one of those obvious questions you solve yourself...
 
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