"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chick With Headphones

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Sometimes when im on the train i always see hot babes listening to music. now this is a negative somtimes because when i want to spit game, they have to take off their earphones and all just to hear what im saying and already they are some what irritated. how do i go about this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^ Or they're just bored. I listen to music when I'm bored.

Black Jesus (such an awesome name), just get right in front of 'em or next to them and make fun of them. Pretend to bob your head to the music, or, if you can hear the song, comment on it.

Side tip though: don't treat it as "spitting game". You end up in this trap where you act like talking to women requires you to turn on some "game" switch. Just treat it like you're messing with a friend.

Amo
 

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amohield said:
^ Or they're just bored. I listen to music when I'm bored.

Black Jesus (such an awesome name), just get right in front of 'em or next to them and make fun of them. Pretend to bob your head to the music, or, if you can hear the song, comment on it.

Side tip though: don't treat it as "spitting game". You end up in this trap where you act like talking to women requires you to turn on some "game" switch. Just treat it like you're messing with a friend.

Amo
lol thanks its a pretty cool name and yea i should stop treating it like a game
 

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f283000 said:
For every girl wearing headphones out there you will find 10 that aren't.

Why put yourself in situations where you are less likely to succeed?
literally every girl my age 15 wears some sort of headphone/earphone due to it being a technological era and due to the fact that public transportations are slow and gets really boring
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm surprised this is a thread honestly.

I've approached girls on their phones, at their jobs, and in mixed groups, so don't complain about a girl with their earphones in.

I mean it's really as simple as sitting next to the girl and gesturing to take her earphones out.

Or you could be more of a d*** (as I tend to do), and take out one of her earphones and listen to her music then comment on it or something.

This is one of those obvious questions you solve yourself...
 
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