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basically i know a girl that everytime that she goes to party and fight with her BF she cheats on him....i wanna know you guys thoughts about this kind of behaviour.
but the most incredible thing about it is that they are together for about 7 years o_O how the **** is that even possible
 

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If I was the boyfriend, I would put a whooping on her.


I wouldn't tolerate that type of cr@p.




People might say, "oh man but if the boyfriend also does the same thing, it looks like they have a great understanding of each other and a sweet open relationship."

Sorry buds, it doesn't work like that. She is not behaving like a good girlfriend, and that guy needs to also put her in line.
 

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BigSmooth said:
If I was the boyfriend, I would put a whooping on her.


I wouldn't tolerate that type of cr@p.




People might say, "oh man but if the boyfriend also does the same thing, it looks like they have a great understanding of each other and a sweet open relationship."

Sorry buds, it doesn't work like that. She is not behaving like a good girlfriend, and that guy needs to also put her in line.
you little hitler you.
 

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Cassify said:
basically i know a girl that everytime that she goes to party and fight with her BF she cheats on him....i wanna know you guys thoughts about this kind of behaviour.
but the most incredible thing about it is that they are together for about 7 years o_O how the **** is that even possible

this is too easy. boyfriend thinks he can't get anyone else so he stays with her no matter what. there are TONS of guys out there like this. being alone is just as bad as dying to them. she also might be the best looking girlfriend he's ever had and he knows if he becomes single he will never be able to top her. i know guys like this too. they don't bother to think that maybe, just maybe, there MIGHT be a better looking girl down the road.lol

as for the girl, shes a hoe.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Wouldn't it make more sense to just dump her?

no because then he would be alone and there are a LOT of guys out there who would much rather be drug through the mud by a woman then be single. they have no balls and know they can't ever get much better then what they currently have. this girl could murder his entire family and he'd still stay with her.
 

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Turn her into a fvck buddy, just dont tell her ;)

I would simply get an other girlfriend and keep her as a fvck buddy without her knowing it untill I do, for sure I wouldnt invest in her.

I feel no moral obligation toward people with no care for my feelings or dignity, I would dump her only if necessary once found an other girl.

Few years ago that would have been a big deal to me, right now I no longer care so much about sh1t women provide, I just analize the situation and take the most logical decision.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Turn her into a fvck buddy, just dont tell her ;)

I would simply get an other girlfriend and keep her as a fvck buddy without her knowing it untill I do, for sure I wouldnt invest in her.

I feel no moral obligation toward people with no care for my feelings or dignity, I would dump her only if necessary once found an other girl.

Few years ago that would have been a big deal to me, right now I no longer care so much about sh1t women provide, I just analize the situation and take the most logical decision.
props. the bf needs friends like you in his life.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Turn her into a fvck buddy, just dont tell her ;)

I would simply get an other girlfriend and keep her as a fvck buddy without her knowing it untill I do, for sure I wouldnt invest in her.

I feel no moral obligation toward people with no care for my feelings or dignity, I would dump her only if necessary once found an other girl.

Few years ago that would have been a big deal to me, right now I no longer care so much about sh1t women provide, I just analize the situation and take the most logical decision.
^^ This.

There is one rule I live by and that is the golden rule. If you can do something I can do it too. Because that work milf or night out with the buds where some hottie is rubbing up on you is going to come around, and it's all green lights buddy.
 

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Robert28 is painfully spot on.

I see it happen out here too. Lots of guys being scared of being alone, and I know some who get their asses whipped by their girls. :eek:

And then I've seen guys coming out the closet. :eek:

Whoever has the most options cares the least about being dumped.
 

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cassify said:
basically i know a girl that everytime that she goes to party and fight with her BF she cheats on him....i wanna know you guys thoughts about this kind of behaviour.
but the most incredible thing about it is that they are together for about 7 years o_O how the **** is that even possible
How is it even possible? Very simply because he keeps rewarding her bad behavior, never giving her an incentive to stop, only reinforcing it. So anytime she feels like he isn't treating her like the princess she is she f*cks someone else to hurt his ego and make him fall in line, and he does, again and again, and before you know it 7 years of this sh1t have gone by.

I think somone linked to an article about this psychology in women recently. As far as what to do presently I think Who Dares Win's got the right idea. Give her a taste of her own medicine before bootin dat ass.

Just toot it and boot it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWlMhiEL9Mc
 

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this situation is pretty f*cked up
and the girl keeps saying she love him so much and their "relationship is way beyond of the normal girlfriend and boyfriend" lol
what a big load o crap
 
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If I ever found out that girl in question would be dumped straight away. I cannot stand unfaithfulness.

Quite how he hasn't been told of his girlfriend's cheating before is beyond me and if he does know and still stays with her that makes him an absolute d*ckhead of the highest order and he deserves everything he gets.

As for being 'scared of being alone', there is nothing scary about being single. Infact I revel in the fact I am single. My life is that of my own, I can do what I want, when I want. Sure I might not get laid as often as someone in a relationship, but then he has to put up with a girl controlling his life or parts of it and he has to put up with the all the hassle that comes with a relationship and he has to put up with a large chunk of time being consumed by it. I have nothing like that to worry about. I'm a free man and wouldn't swap that freedom for a relationship and I doubt I'll change my mind anytime soon.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Wouldn't it make more sense to just dump her?

It was supposed to be taken figuratively, not literally.



Yes, dumping her would be the right choice.
 
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