She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how the **** is that even possibleThat sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cassify said:basically i know a girl that everytime that she goes to party and fight with her BF she cheats on him....i wanna know you guys thoughts about this kind of behaviour.
but the most incredible thing about it is that they are together for about 7 years
BigSmooth said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SharinganUser said:
props. the bf needs friends like you in his life.Who Dares Win said:Turn her into a fvck buddy, just dont tell her
I would simply get an other girlfriend and keep her as a fvck buddy without her knowing it untill I do, for sure I wouldnt invest in her.
I feel no moral obligation toward people with no care for my feelings or dignity, I would dump her only if necessary once found an other girl.
Few years ago that would have been a big deal to me, right now I no longer care so much about sh1t women provide, I just analize the situation and take the most logical decision.
^^ This.Who Dares Win said:Turn her into a fvck buddy, just dont tell her
I would simply get an other girlfriend and keep her as a fvck buddy without her knowing it untill I do, for sure I wouldnt invest in her.
I feel no moral obligation toward people with no care for my feelings or dignity, I would dump her only if necessary once found an other girl.
Few years ago that would have been a big deal to me, right now I no longer care so much about sh1t women provide, I just analize the situation and take the most logical decision.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How is it even possible? Very simply because he keeps rewarding her bad behavior, never giving her an incentive to stop, only reinforcing it. So anytime she feels like he isn't treating her like the princess she is she f*cks someone else to hurt his ego and make him fall in line, and he does, again and again, and before you know it 7 years of this sh1t have gone by.Cassify said:basically i know a girl that everytime that she goes to party and fight with her BF she cheats on him....i wanna know you guys thoughts about this kind of behaviour.
but the most incredible thing about it is that they are together for about 7 years