"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick was being cold, now I was creeping her out?

Locogooner

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ive made a thread bout this before so I'll post the stuff I posted in those threads.
so me and this girl were flirting before the summer. She said i have a big **** and she wants me to be her bf, bear in mind she never said this to me while we were alone, only when she was with her friends or with other people. And other than that, she didn't really speak to me.I stress,we never really spoke until she broke up with her bf. She then asks my mate to give her my number, then when i asked her she said her phone was broke. i thought this was fine.

in addtion she was also flirting with like 2 other guys. then my mate who shes also been flirting with tells me that shes asked him for sex. then i see shes also flirting with her ex that she broke with 2 months ago(they were going out for a year). Funny thing is, she mentions him and her bbm which means she has a fone now.

what i find weird is, she initiated it all. I never showed her any great interest then all of a sudden she starts saying hi to me, saying i have a big **** etc, asking my mate for my number.
so she asked for my number first a couple months ago through my best mate. I assumed he gave it to her. We flirted a bit etc and got paired as study buddies. I ask for her phone no. and she says its broke.Then after the summer i come back to school and she says she's been texting me but my fone wasn't working so i was using my mums and couldnt see the "texts"

so i say to her "i'll give u the number when its working again" she says ok.

then I say to her a week later "my phones working again, i can give u the number if you want?"

she replies "but we're not study buddies anymore?(laugh)"

wtf, After all this time and asking for my number first, she says that?

she's the most flakey girl i've ever seen. If feel like she wants me and doesn't at the same time
now i hear from my mate that im creeping her out cos I'm not putting the effort in? the ****? I was gonna give her my number but she didn't seem interested enough, now I'm a creep?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pdx1138

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yes, ignore the attention whoore.

She says these things in front of others for the shock value.

My ex did the same thing and embarrased me in front of my family once.

Trashy behavior that isn't worth your time.
 

PapiChulo

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second the AW claim - she is nuts
 

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Motion passes.

You are now free of a trashy woman! Go celebrate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mike32ct

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DON'T give her your number for ANY reason. Don't give her any more information about yourself and your life. You don't owe her sh&t. If she were online, we'd call her a troll.

Just ignore her. If you stay strong and ignore her for an extended amount of time, she'll give up and move on to her next victim.
 
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