"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chick wants me to help her with a term paper, do i?

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trey0204

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how can i help this girl out but not seem like im giving into her demands, or will do whatever she asks? im majoring in the field she is struggling in. should i just ignore her request all together? i dont want to seem like an ass.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahah Tom Leykis talked about this not too long ago.

And a lot of women called in and said a lot of guys that she asked to study with all thought the chick liked the dude.

And the dude wouldn’t get the hint and they did a lot of other AFC things.

But the point is is that when they really want to study it’s because they do.

College ain’t cheap.

Now I think you can tell when they ASK you they want to study and when the want to “study(fvk)”.

You know the look, the tone, and difference between the two.

To me it just looks like she’s having a really hard time and needs a study partner.

You figure it out.
 
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Best way to find out if she's "interested" or just wants to study is to say this...

"What's in it for ME? "

If she answers with a flirty type of I dunno, rolls her eyes and smiles kinda thing then chances are she's interested.

If she says she'll buy you lunch or something lame like that she probably just wants to study.

It's hard to say, because you never gave us any info on how well you know her, if there's been any flirting etc...
 
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