"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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chick wants me to help her with a term paper, do i?

trey0204

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how can i help this girl out but not seem like im giving into her demands, or will do whatever she asks? im majoring in the field she is struggling in. should i just ignore her request all together? i dont want to seem like an ass.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Hahah Tom Leykis talked about this not too long ago.

And a lot of women called in and said a lot of guys that she asked to study with all thought the chick liked the dude.

And the dude wouldn’t get the hint and they did a lot of other AFC things.

But the point is is that when they really want to study it’s because they do.

College ain’t cheap.

Now I think you can tell when they ASK you they want to study and when the want to “study(fvk)”.

You know the look, the tone, and difference between the two.

To me it just looks like she’s having a really hard time and needs a study partner.

You figure it out.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Best way to find out if she's "interested" or just wants to study is to say this...

"What's in it for ME? "

If she answers with a flirty type of I dunno, rolls her eyes and smiles kinda thing then chances are she's interested.

If she says she'll buy you lunch or something lame like that she probably just wants to study.

It's hard to say, because you never gave us any info on how well you know her, if there's been any flirting etc...
 
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