"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So this chick wanted to get to know me better so she asked me to meet up with her which I agreed to. We talked about alot of things well mainly her but the thing is she mentioned to me some really deep stuff. Well we talked about how the year 2011 was terrible and she mentioned it sucked because she broke up with her long term, family problems, her aunt diagnosed with cancer etc. Then I changed the topic and we started talking driving because i still haven't got my licence >.< . She mentioned again that she used to drive to the city with her ex when she was learning. I know i'm probably over analysing a tad too much but common sense tells me that you don't really reveal all those deep stuff about yourself when you first meet someone unless you're really comfortable with the other person ie "As a friend".

Anyway any advice for me? Is this a red flag or am i just being a massive chump? Should i just next?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The trick is to try and escalate. It's the only way you can know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You waited too late to escalate and now you're gonna masturbate. Story of many people in the friendzone. You're next because this is where you are. Be sexual from the get go and don't be scared to slip the innuendos in.:cool:

Judge nismo has found you guilty of failure to escalate and becoming an emotional tampon. I wrote a nice ass thread not too long ago about common ass cases like this. So you're fined bruised genitals, loss of power, hearings of whiny stories about other men outside of you, and a trip to Platonicton, West Virginia.

Move on. She's with her ex. Stop worrying. That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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Sometimes you can't escalate quickly enough because they won't let you! It's a catch 22, you cant escalate because of lack of interest and lose whatever low interest she has because you cant escalate properly! The quick escalation only helps with resolving the issue quickly enough. My shortest escalation phase to sex was 5 mins. The chances are that she won't be sexing you if it didn't happen within first few meetings with her. That's where being patient and other women come very handy.
 
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So this chick wanted to get to know me better so she asked me to meet up with her which I agreed to. We talked about alot of things well mainly her but the thing is she mentioned to me some really deep stuff.
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Was this a coffee date? A dinner date? If you are not a great communicator yet and don't have a way with talking game at women you can always try action dates. Pool, bowling etc. I personally like pool as I am able to get lots of kino in and tease her/challenge her due to us playing against each other. That alone pushes me away from the friend zone which can happen in a coffee/dinner date when you're sitting down unable to kino her and if she sucks you in to talking about stuff you shouldn't talk about (her ex etc).
2011 was terrible and she mentioned it sucked because she broke up with her long term, family problems, her aunt diagnosed with cancer etc. Then I changed the topic and we started talking driving because i still haven't got my licence >.< . She mentioned again that she used to drive to the city with her ex when she was learning.
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It's your job to lead the conversation into a direction that suits you. I mean if she ends up talking about her dying aunt and her ex boyfriend on a date with you then for sure YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.
 
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