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Chick that's coming over is into BDS*M

GreatHornedOwl

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She tells me she's into collars, paddles, riding crops, high tie restraints, ball gag, etc. And she wants me to bite her to the point it leaves bruises, and spank her to the point it hurts to sit the next day.

I'm not really into that kind of sh!t, so I'm not sure what to do here. I was talking to my buddy about it, and he said I should be honest, because apparently those people have no tolerance for others that aren't totally with it.

Any opinions on how to handle this? The chick is pretty hot, with a huge rack.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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If you've never done this before, diving head first is not recommended.

Rule #1: tying/abusing a woman up you are meeting for the first time is a really great way to go to jail for a long time.

Rule #2: Need to negotiate with her on what she wants and what she does not, safe word, etc.

Negotiating is very common in kink
 

Guy69JackBlue

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She's probably an emotionally immature weirdo who thinks she's being "hardcore" by doing some stupid sh1t like this. Just my guess. I say don't let her take you down the rabbit hole to nowhere.
 

bat soup

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She tells me she's into collars, paddles, riding crops, high tie restraints, ball gag, etc. And she wants me to bite her to the point it leaves bruises, and spank her to the point it hurts to sit the next day.

I'm not really into that kind of sh!t, so I'm not sure what to do here. I was talking to my buddy about it, and he said I should be honest, because apparently those people have no tolerance for others that aren't totally with it.

Any opinions on how to handle this? The chick is pretty hot, with a huge rack.
You have to watch the scene from Pulp Fiction where they say "bring out the gimp". That will get you in the mood.
 

Visionist

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Piss down her throat
 
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