"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chick sitting next to you but ignoring you.

DonMEgaHoss

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This smoking little number from high school she just sexy as hell hb7.8 She was the typical 'popular chic' and so forth. Me, I was the loner/ semi-geek

Now that I been exercising and lifting and so forth Im near ripped and get girls shouting out comments about my looks. :rolleyes:

Like the mirror version of guys that yell stuff out when driving at babes on the street.

She was pretty friendly when I recently got reaquinted then like a week later she comes by sits DIRECTLY beside me. My AFC friend got up for her to have a seat lol..

Its just that I said, ' Hey, whats up?!" In a friendly voice.. COMPLETELY IGNORGED my words at all. But she is so smoking and she's doesnt seem to be the insecure type. :rock: Just got my noodle cooking..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mission

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Are you sure she even heard you. I don't often know someone to completly ignore you for no reason. She didn't give you a look, or respond at all?

--Mission
 

DonMEgaHoss

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Nothing I thought I spoke pretty clearly being upbeat with my tone of voice.
 

oneboy21

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when you sit next to a girl , and she is acting smart.
you can do these things
pretend to be busy by using phone
mirror the body language.
if she is smoking ask her for lighter.and u can even use ****y comedy here
 

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You shoulda just acted like u didnt even kno who she was

"u made my friend get up so YOU could sit down thats quite rude u know" say it in a friendly manner with a smirk. That would definetly gotton her attention...u see...


...Saying a general "hello" could easily be ignored because sometimes people are so insecure that if someone says a greeting near them they fear looking because if someone else is being greeted and its not them they will take a hit to their egos.

ive seen that **** happen haha. strange human behavior.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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00Kevin

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this girl is already trash don't even waste your time.
 

flippinfreak

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"hey whats up?"

You actually asked that question? I ignore people who ask that as well, especially if they don't have my attention first.

If I were going to do that, least I would do is bump her with my elbow.
 
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