"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick said "never enjoyed sex with me"

mrgoodstuff

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Maybe it's true, maybe it isn't. What's clear is that she isn't into you anymore so there is no use prolonging the charade....just cut contact with her and move on

Every woman likes different things sexually and no one man can please every woman. I'm quite confident in my abilities, but I had a chick who had a super deep pvssy, and while I'm slightly longer than average, I couldn't reach the back of her. She also wasn't into fingering or receiving oral, so there wasn't much else I could to do to make her cvm...

It was just a bad match anatomically...she needed a dude with an 8.5 inch d!ck...

As long as you are working at being the best you can be in the bedroom, nothing else you can do.
Hey bro, you don't have to hit the back on most chicks to make them cvm. Most don't come vaginally anyways and many when you hit the back it's very irritating to them and takes their mind off the great feelings from penetration. But if you found one that needs literally one of the top porn c0cks to cvm, well god bless her. She needs what less than 1% of the male population has in their pants... Not your problem.

Anyways you can get a great deal women to cvm while you are pumping in them but their cl1t needs to be big enough and you do it missionary and take a very high angle, as you go in and out the top of the c0ck will be rubbing the cl1t. They will cvm. It takes a while to get it, but I've been able to do this on multiple women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey bro, you don't have to hit the back on most chicks to make them cvm. Most don't come vaginally anyways and many when you hit the back it's very irritating to them and takes their mind off the great feelings from penetration. But if you found one that needs literally one of the top porn c0cks to cvm, well god bless her. She needs what less than 1% of the male population has in their pants... Not your problem.

Anyways you can get a great deal women to cvm while you are pumping in them but their cl1t needs to be big enough and you do it missionary and take a very high angle, as you go in and out the top of the c0ck will be rubbing the cl1t. They will cvm. It takes a while to get it, but I've been able to do this on multiple women.
Yeah, I'm usually really good at making chicks ***/squirt but this one was a different story, lol
 

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Question is why do you care? You don't love her right? You were just fvcking and that's that....

When you tell a woman you don't love her she'll try to destroy your self esteem, it's classic female reaction. You lucky she didn't say you have a small ****.
 

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Question is why do you care? You don't love her right? You were just fvcking and that's that....

When you tell a woman you don't love her she'll try to destroy your self esteem, it's classic female reaction. You lucky she didn't say you have a small ****.
The thing is, she was not butt-hurt. She wanted me to say "no, I don't think we are dating." She didn't want me to think we were exclusive. It's that simple. Her saying she never liked sleeping with me probably had more to do with ensuring I didn't make a move in the future.

While I may not love her, what man wouldn't be insulted by a woman criticizing his performance. I think any guy on this forum would to take it to heart to some extent.

She has texted me on two occasions since then and I have been as terse as possible. Tonight she asked me if I hated her. I don't think there is a quality about women I like less. When I don't really like someone I don't bother to reach out to them. My interest in them is not contingent upon the interest they don't pay me.

It's funny -- she told me she saw me walking but emphasized her friend was driving, thus the alleged reason she didn't stop to say hello. I used a male pronoun in reference to her "friend" whose gender she left ambiguous. Her response was, "I thought you didn't see me?" I didn't.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The thing is, she was not butt-hurt. She wanted me to say "no, I don't think we are dating." She didn't want me to think we were exclusive. It's that simple. Her saying she never liked sleeping with me probably had more to do with ensuring I didn't make a move in the future.

While I may not love her, what man wouldn't be insulted by a woman criticizing his performance. I think any guy on this forum would to take it to heart to some extent.

She has texted me on two occasions since then and I have been as terse as possible. Tonight she asked me if I hated her. I don't think there is a quality about women I like less. When I don't really like someone I don't bother to reach out to them. My interest in them is not contingent upon the interest they don't pay me.

It's funny -- she told me she saw me walking but emphasized her friend was driving, thus the alleged reason she didn't stop to say hello. I used a male pronoun in reference to her "friend" whose gender she left ambiguous. Her response was, "I thought you didn't see me?" I didn't.
Maybe you just need to permanently ignore this chick.
 

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Well she has begun to question my interest. So she can keep playing a game she won't win.

She is insecure and cannot handle losing the affection of a guy. In the absence of attention from another guy, she would come storming back to me.
 

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Well she has begun to question my interest. So she can keep playing a game she won't win.

She is insecure and cannot handle losing the affection of a guy. In the absence of attention from another guy, she would come storming back to me.
Hence why you should permanently ignore her. Why waste time and energy on a girl who doesn't like you and wants to play games. If you don't play, then she won't win.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This morning she sent me this message. This is the first time she's ever been angry at me:

"I don't get what's up with u and u texting 1 wrd answers when I ask a question, I don't want to talk to someone like that. You're just mad that I didn't want to date you but that's my decision not yours! Now you made me pissed off"
 

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This morning she sent me this message. This is the first time she's ever been angry at me:

"I don't get what's up with u and u texting 1 wrd answers when I ask a question, I don't want to talk to someone like that. You're just mad that I didn't want to date you but that's my decision not yours! Now you made me pissed off"
You now have her hamster wheel spinning. She has never been ignored before. She is used to dictating how things go. You have removed her from the drivers seat and she isnt used to it and is handling ir badly.

reply with "ok."

Then continue to ignore.
 
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