Solomon
Master Don Juan
My thoughts.....
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Would Bang but with minimal effort, sadly where I love she would be deemed hot because cute black women are hard to come by
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Any major city.Every chick on OLD isn't like the chick I referenced in this thread.
I'm not, I don't just meet women off OLD. I meet women in a variety of places. OLD is just one medium. It's why I'm able to come and report to the forum that 99% of women PERIOD are fvcked up. There are no unicorns, every chick you deal with in this market will have something majorly wrong with her to where you have to just "handle it".
You name the specific place where you go to find all of these quality women .....and I'll book a flight out there.
- What does "any major city" mean? Be more specific. Specifically where does 9Volt go to meet these high quality women you keep talking about, i.e., name the place, the day, the time, along with said city, state.Any major city.
You've met and dated 99% of chicks? You personally know 99% of chicks?
No offense this girl is very unattractive (about a 4/5) and looks like she has a massive gut to top if off. No wonder why you're always frustrated if these are the types of women (low quality) you like plus the attitudeI like the THICK look as well as the FIT look. So a chick with a fat a.ss, big titties, and big thighs turns me on.
Man, it just seems hopeless these days man.
now you're being ridiculous and trying to argue semantics. If you can't tell which places you're more likely to find better types of chicks it's over for you.- What does "any major city" mean? Be more specific. Specifically where does 9Volt go to meet these high quality women you keep talking about, i.e., name the place, the day, the time, along with said city, state.
- Secondly, have you dated all chicks from OLD? Do you personally know all chicks from OLD? If the logic you are using is that my analysis of 99% of the market is fvcked up is off because I haven't dated 99% of chicks, you can't use the same logic for your theory that OLD is completely fvcked because you haven't dated all chicks from OLD.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Solid video bro lol! Lmao @ Minnesota 7!
My thoughts.....
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Would Bang but with minimal effort, sadly where I love she would be deemed hot because cute black women are hard to come by
Doesn't surprise me, this chick sounds like she been "Ran through" by players and prettyboys and now wants to dictate the terms smhSolid video bro lol! Lmao @ Minnesota 7!
Guys also this chick is fatter than I thought, I can send you guys her Facebook page in a PM so it doesn't show up in search engines. Her finances are also not efficient at all.
Keep my name out of this LOLDoesn't surprise me, this chick sounds like she been "Ran through" by players and prettyboys and now wants to dictate the terms smh
Wow. What a shocker. That's most likely just the tip of the ice burg floating in the toxic biohazard of POF.Solid video bro lol! Lmao @ Minnesota 7!
Guys also this chick is fatter than I thought, I can send you guys her Facebook page in a PM so it doesn't show up in search engines. Her finances are also not efficient at all.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.