"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chick Playing games with me? Revelation revealed today

verysuave

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OKay, this other attention wh0re been trying to mess with me by flirting at school. She's half white/middle eastern. (she would always try to get my attention btw) Ive an ******* to her the whole time cuz i knew from the start, from what i heard about her is that she's a snake/b1tch)

Things were heating up. To make long short again this is how our convo went

she would ask questions about me as if she was INTERESTED, lightly touch me and things like that

So finally today after short convo with her

Me: "hey terrorist, where do you keep your bombs"
hb: "in my bedroom"
me: "i hope their not the little toy ones"
Hb: "no, their the toy ones, their the REAL REALLY BIG ONES"
HB: "I'll even show you how I make them"

then i had to go..

15 minutes later.. i walk back in

me: "so, gimme your number"
hb: "why you want my number?"
me: So i can see how clean your room is"
hb: "no thats okay"
me: "you must have a dirty room then"
hb: "......"
hb: "OMG, i can't believe you said that.. I've never heard that pick up line before.. thats good really good. I'm going to use that"

And there you have it. No number from that attention wh0re
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't even go there dude. Some chicks are too messed in the head to even bother with. BPD probably.

Also, you asked for the digits way too early. Get to know her first before you let her into your life.
 

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Quiksilver said:
Don't even go there dude. Some chicks are too messed in the head to even bother with. BPD probably.

Also, you asked for the digits way too early. Get to know her first before you let her into your life.
you said to early? so, THERE IS a difference between gaming women in the workplace who you SEE everyday vs women you just meet at a club etc etc
 

mtlwlu

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Attention Wh0re. Im not sure you want to call her a terrorist considering her middle eastern background, I dont think a racist is a quaility you want to use when trying to game a girl, unless you met her at a KKK meeting.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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verysuave said:
you said to early? so, THERE IS a difference between gaming women in the workplace who you SEE everyday vs women you just meet at a club etc etc
I think there's a difference. Women usually go to clubs to meet guys and so you, being a guy, need to act right then. At work it's different because you know you'll see her again in due time. You need to move slower because it might be awkward since you both know you work together and dating a coworker is usually looked down upon. But yeah if you're at work I would say build rapport over the first couple meetings and then try to get a number (or just go out after work) if you sense some interest. Good thing about work is that it gives you a little more time but if you don't act soon enough she'll lose interest or think you're AFC.
 
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