"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chick keeps returning with phantom phone calls

sharpshooter

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Left a message telling her she was great, but if she wanted to play *****y games then I didn't have any time.

10 minutes later I get a private call..and the person doesn't say a word, about 10 seconds of saying hello they hang up. This happened last time as well when I left a message on her phone, exactly 10 minutes to the call. There's no question it's her, but i'm wondering what she's trying to do.

I've already nexted her, but wtf is she trying to pull.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flexion_

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Maybe its her husband or boyfriend calling?

Who knows... get call display and don't answer the phone answer the phone if its her calling.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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She's just fishing to see whether she still has a hold on you; to see how many hoops she can make you jump through. She could be playing a game to see just how long you'll say 'hello' to silence on the phone. She could just be pushing your buttons to make you angry. Don't give her the satisfaction.
 

sharpshooter

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I do have call display

that' why I was able to read it saying "private caller"

haha
 

Kidd

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I never answer private numbers. If someone wants to talk to me, they better damn unblock it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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