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Chick keeps matching text response time.

SkrooU

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I’m talking about to the minute sometimes, but usually within a 5 min range. I’m generally busy with in-person conversations. So if I initiate at 5 pm she’ll reply at 5:20. But by then I’m already onto something else and then let’s say 1 hr 37 min passes and I get back to her. She will wait 1 hr 37 min to reply back. Then if I reply 7 minutes later, she’ll reply in 7 minute. Lol
Just seems very calculating so kinda crazy. But then maybe she’s just trying to show she is adaptable to whatever my style or needs are.

Anybody encountered this?
 

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RangerMIke

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You go to any PUA or chick relationship website with advice on texting, they tell you not only to match response times, but also the amount of text. If you have a chick doing this, this indicates high interest because she is following a pattern which in her mind, will lead to success.

It's a good thing.

My advice would be to try not to think about it and don;t play games. That's what chicks do. If you want to text her and you have the time, do it. Don't worry about when she gets back to you and how long the message is. If you get a text and you're not doing anything else and want to text back immediately, do it. If you are busy and don't have time... respond when you have time.
 

sosousage

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You go to any PUA or chick relationship website with advice on texting, they tell you not only to match response times, but also the amount of text. If you have a chick doing this, this indicates high interest because she is following a pattern which in her mind, will lead to success.

It's a good thing.

My advice would be to try not to think about it and don;t play games. That's what chicks do. If you want to text her and you have the time, do it. Don't worry about when she gets back to you and how long the message is. If you get a text and you're not doing anything else and want to text back immediately, do it. If you are busy and don't have time... respond when you have time.
imo it works better when it takes you longer to reply than she does
 

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I’m talking about to the minute sometimes, but usually within a 5 min range. I’m generally busy with in-person conversations. So if I initiate at 5 pm she’ll reply at 5:20. But by then I’m already onto something else and then let’s say 1 hr 37 min passes and I get back to her. She will wait 1 hr 37 min to reply back. Then if I reply 7 minutes later, she’ll reply in 7 minute. Lol
Just seems very calculating so kinda crazy. But then maybe she’s just trying to show she is adaptable to whatever my style or needs are.

Anybody encountered this?
This is why I hate texting. Phone calls are much better, you can convert personality and your either talking or not talking. but as for messages, voice messages on FB messenger has similar effect of phone calls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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This is why I hate texting. Phone calls are much better, you can convert personality and your either talking or not talking. but as for messages, voice messages on FB messenger has similar effect of phone calls.
Nobody has time to waste talking on the phone these days
 

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Nobody has time to waste talking on the phone these days
Sure they do, they're just scrolling through several social media feeds and watching their friends dumb "stories". They might initially resist but theyll be glad they did it later.
 

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Who knows what this means. She could be perturbed that you don't reply back fast enough so she decided to mimic your response time.

As long as she is replying and initiating then its all good!
 

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Sure they do, they're just scrolling through several social media feeds and watching their friends dumb "stories". They might initially resist but theyll be glad they did it later.
If thats what the people you are calling do maybe you should find better people, lol
 
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