“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chick keeps matching text response time.

SkrooU

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I’m talking about to the minute sometimes, but usually within a 5 min range. I’m generally busy with in-person conversations. So if I initiate at 5 pm she’ll reply at 5:20. But by then I’m already onto something else and then let’s say 1 hr 37 min passes and I get back to her. She will wait 1 hr 37 min to reply back. Then if I reply 7 minutes later, she’ll reply in 7 minute. Lol
Just seems very calculating so kinda crazy. But then maybe she’s just trying to show she is adaptable to whatever my style or needs are.

Anybody encountered this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You go to any PUA or chick relationship website with advice on texting, they tell you not only to match response times, but also the amount of text. If you have a chick doing this, this indicates high interest because she is following a pattern which in her mind, will lead to success.

It's a good thing.

My advice would be to try not to think about it and don;t play games. That's what chicks do. If you want to text her and you have the time, do it. Don't worry about when she gets back to you and how long the message is. If you get a text and you're not doing anything else and want to text back immediately, do it. If you are busy and don't have time... respond when you have time.
 

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You go to any PUA or chick relationship website with advice on texting, they tell you not only to match response times, but also the amount of text. If you have a chick doing this, this indicates high interest because she is following a pattern which in her mind, will lead to success.

It's a good thing.

My advice would be to try not to think about it and don;t play games. That's what chicks do. If you want to text her and you have the time, do it. Don't worry about when she gets back to you and how long the message is. If you get a text and you're not doing anything else and want to text back immediately, do it. If you are busy and don't have time... respond when you have time.
imo it works better when it takes you longer to reply than she does
 

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I’m talking about to the minute sometimes, but usually within a 5 min range. I’m generally busy with in-person conversations. So if I initiate at 5 pm she’ll reply at 5:20. But by then I’m already onto something else and then let’s say 1 hr 37 min passes and I get back to her. She will wait 1 hr 37 min to reply back. Then if I reply 7 minutes later, she’ll reply in 7 minute. Lol
Just seems very calculating so kinda crazy. But then maybe she’s just trying to show she is adaptable to whatever my style or needs are.

Anybody encountered this?
This is why I hate texting. Phone calls are much better, you can convert personality and your either talking or not talking. but as for messages, voice messages on FB messenger has similar effect of phone calls.
 

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This is why I hate texting. Phone calls are much better, you can convert personality and your either talking or not talking. but as for messages, voice messages on FB messenger has similar effect of phone calls.
Nobody has time to waste talking on the phone these days
 

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Nobody has time to waste talking on the phone these days
Sure they do, they're just scrolling through several social media feeds and watching their friends dumb "stories". They might initially resist but theyll be glad they did it later.
 

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Who knows what this means. She could be perturbed that you don't reply back fast enough so she decided to mimic your response time.

As long as she is replying and initiating then its all good!
 

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Sure they do, they're just scrolling through several social media feeds and watching their friends dumb "stories". They might initially resist but theyll be glad they did it later.
If thats what the people you are calling do maybe you should find better people, lol
 
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