"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so theres this chick in my classes and i can kinda tell she likes me, we hav tons of kino every chance we get and like everytime she sees me she will run up and give me a hug.. I really love her personallity shes like awesome to be around and shes hot I wanna hang out with her and ask her out but theres a few problems..
1. She is in two of my classes and i see her alot everyday in school, from all the LTR advice ive seen that this will kind of burn us out and we'll get bored u kno, plus it will be wierd like in class i dunno.

2. Some of my friends who kno her well, say that she gets reallly attached to the guys she likes and will try to like marry me or something... but im alrite with her getting attached..

I think that if I wait till next semester, when were not in the same classes, she might be taken by someone else sooo I dunno what to do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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just keep mixing it up. stay interesting and unpredictable. keep uping it but make sure that she doesnt follow you around and try to make out w/ you in class (although that would be funny to see) and dont let her interfere with school
 
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stop making excuses and go for it.
 
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Originally posted by theNEWDJ

2. Some of my friends who kno her well, say that she gets reallly attached to the guys she likes and will try to like marry me or something... but im alrite with her getting attached..
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i wouldnt risk it. chicks who get way to attached will cause problems later
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes go for it allready !!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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everyone here basicly says go for were rooting you on man good luck
 
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alrite thanks alot guys
 
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