Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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theNEWDJ

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so theres this chick in my classes and i can kinda tell she likes me, we hav tons of kino every chance we get and like everytime she sees me she will run up and give me a hug.. I really love her personallity shes like awesome to be around and shes hot I wanna hang out with her and ask her out but theres a few problems..
1. She is in two of my classes and i see her alot everyday in school, from all the LTR advice ive seen that this will kind of burn us out and we'll get bored u kno, plus it will be wierd like in class i dunno.

2. Some of my friends who kno her well, say that she gets reallly attached to the guys she likes and will try to like marry me or something... but im alrite with her getting attached..

I think that if I wait till next semester, when were not in the same classes, she might be taken by someone else sooo I dunno what to do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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just keep mixing it up. stay interesting and unpredictable. keep uping it but make sure that she doesnt follow you around and try to make out w/ you in class (although that would be funny to see) and dont let her interfere with school
 

RaWBLooD

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stop making excuses and go for it.
 

Thraxeh

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ

2. Some of my friends who kno her well, say that she gets reallly attached to the guys she likes and will try to like marry me or something... but im alrite with her getting attached..
i wouldnt risk it. chicks who get way to attached will cause problems later
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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yes go for it allready !!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

johnm420

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everyone here basicly says go for were rooting you on man good luck
 

theNEWDJ

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alrite thanks alot guys
 
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