"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chick I was talking to is back with ex (im assuming) ATTN PYROS

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So I havent contacted the chick from last monday night at all since she last said that she was going to be busy moving.

On saturday night I was at a bar in her area with a couple friends celebrating one of their bdays. At the end of the night I am leaving and I see her pull up to the light and turn right infront of me (she has a personalized plate that she showed me last week). This is at 1:30 AM and she is going to her old place that she shared with her bf. I doubt she got off work and then had to stop by to get things for the place she was moving to.

So I am guessing that this whole time she has been giving the busy excuse because the day after I met her she probably got back with her bf and is just waiting to see how things go and if it doesnt work out then she'll hit me up.

So I am wondering if you guys think I should still send a text to ask how the move is going (even though Im guessing that she isnt actually moving anymore) and see what she says. There is a very small chance that she didnt get to start moving until yesterday (the 1st) which would kinda make sense.

Opinions? Ive already kinda moved on but its worth sending one more text to her since I will probably never see her again so I really dont care what she thinks of me at this point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she lied to you and now you ask her how is the moving going...she's gonna believe and certify you're a chump.

Anyway, do as you wish if that makes you happy and it lets you learn something for future occassions, ie, do not contact the girl again considering the situation.
 
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bootypirate250 said:
Why should you even give a Fcuk?
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haha because she is hot as fvck. Its not that I really care but I do definitely wanna get with her if there is still a chance of it happening. If not then ya whatever
 
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