"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chick I was talking to is back with ex (im assuming) ATTN PYROS

dk1990S111

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So I havent contacted the chick from last monday night at all since she last said that she was going to be busy moving.

On saturday night I was at a bar in her area with a couple friends celebrating one of their bdays. At the end of the night I am leaving and I see her pull up to the light and turn right infront of me (she has a personalized plate that she showed me last week). This is at 1:30 AM and she is going to her old place that she shared with her bf. I doubt she got off work and then had to stop by to get things for the place she was moving to.

So I am guessing that this whole time she has been giving the busy excuse because the day after I met her she probably got back with her bf and is just waiting to see how things go and if it doesnt work out then she'll hit me up.

So I am wondering if you guys think I should still send a text to ask how the move is going (even though Im guessing that she isnt actually moving anymore) and see what she says. There is a very small chance that she didnt get to start moving until yesterday (the 1st) which would kinda make sense.

Opinions? Ive already kinda moved on but its worth sending one more text to her since I will probably never see her again so I really dont care what she thinks of me at this point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she lied to you and now you ask her how is the moving going...she's gonna believe and certify you're a chump.

Anyway, do as you wish if that makes you happy and it lets you learn something for future occassions, ie, do not contact the girl again considering the situation.
 

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bootypirate250 said:
Why should you even give a Fcuk?
haha because she is hot as fvck. Its not that I really care but I do definitely wanna get with her if there is still a chance of it happening. If not then ya whatever
 
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