"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chick I was talking to is back with ex (im assuming) ATTN PYROS

dk1990S111

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So I havent contacted the chick from last monday night at all since she last said that she was going to be busy moving.

On saturday night I was at a bar in her area with a couple friends celebrating one of their bdays. At the end of the night I am leaving and I see her pull up to the light and turn right infront of me (she has a personalized plate that she showed me last week). This is at 1:30 AM and she is going to her old place that she shared with her bf. I doubt she got off work and then had to stop by to get things for the place she was moving to.

So I am guessing that this whole time she has been giving the busy excuse because the day after I met her she probably got back with her bf and is just waiting to see how things go and if it doesnt work out then she'll hit me up.

So I am wondering if you guys think I should still send a text to ask how the move is going (even though Im guessing that she isnt actually moving anymore) and see what she says. There is a very small chance that she didnt get to start moving until yesterday (the 1st) which would kinda make sense.

Opinions? Ive already kinda moved on but its worth sending one more text to her since I will probably never see her again so I really dont care what she thinks of me at this point.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she lied to you and now you ask her how is the moving going...she's gonna believe and certify you're a chump.

Anyway, do as you wish if that makes you happy and it lets you learn something for future occassions, ie, do not contact the girl again considering the situation.
 

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bootypirate250 said:
Why should you even give a Fcuk?
haha because she is hot as fvck. Its not that I really care but I do definitely wanna get with her if there is still a chance of it happening. If not then ya whatever
 
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