"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hydrak

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So my friend called me on skype alongside a hot 18 y o chick and her friend on skype early january. Her friend is a ****y bi*** and I pretty much started insulting/negging her friend from the start. I really despise her friend so I've been teasing her and trying to put her down as much as possible, which resulted in the bi*** blocking me.

Now, 1 month later me and this chick have spent like 15-20 hours talking on skype and I've been texting her a bit/calling her. She's sent me a few photos and asked me for a picture of my body (which I did send her after she begged a few days).

I know she's interested in me, the problem is I have really huge problems knowing when to call her. She studies a lot, and I am a guy who doesn't make contact very often often. I've called her a few times the last month, but she never really calls me so I have to make the initiative.

Should I be a bit more "on" and call/text her more often, or should I continue to act like I have other chicks and not really care much?

Progress is going slow and we rarely talk, but I don't want to seem like the desperate type who keeps calling/texting every other day seeing how I am the only one who is taking initiative to chat.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Night-hawk

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'Hot 18 year old on skype.' Asks for picture. Chit chats. If she lives in your close proximity take initiative, and if she takes the hook, go for it. If not, I advise you don't waste your time.
 

asa_don

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You are wasting your time here. You spent a month and 20 hours on line with her and nothing to show for it.

You've know her for a month and skyped for 20 hours. What more do you have to talk about with her? Why haven't you asked her out yet? What are you waiting for? If this girl was at least semi interested in you she would have hinted at hanging out with you a long time ago.
 
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