"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chick I havn't met yet

Hydrak

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So my friend called me on skype alongside a hot 18 y o chick and her friend on skype early january. Her friend is a ****y bi*** and I pretty much started insulting/negging her friend from the start. I really despise her friend so I've been teasing her and trying to put her down as much as possible, which resulted in the bi*** blocking me.

Now, 1 month later me and this chick have spent like 15-20 hours talking on skype and I've been texting her a bit/calling her. She's sent me a few photos and asked me for a picture of my body (which I did send her after she begged a few days).

I know she's interested in me, the problem is I have really huge problems knowing when to call her. She studies a lot, and I am a guy who doesn't make contact very often often. I've called her a few times the last month, but she never really calls me so I have to make the initiative.

Should I be a bit more "on" and call/text her more often, or should I continue to act like I have other chicks and not really care much?

Progress is going slow and we rarely talk, but I don't want to seem like the desperate type who keeps calling/texting every other day seeing how I am the only one who is taking initiative to chat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Night-hawk

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'Hot 18 year old on skype.' Asks for picture. Chit chats. If she lives in your close proximity take initiative, and if she takes the hook, go for it. If not, I advise you don't waste your time.
 

asa_don

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You are wasting your time here. You spent a month and 20 hours on line with her and nothing to show for it.

You've know her for a month and skyped for 20 hours. What more do you have to talk about with her? Why haven't you asked her out yet? What are you waiting for? If this girl was at least semi interested in you she would have hinted at hanging out with you a long time ago.
 
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