"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys. I'm going to be a freshman at a school out east this summer. While I was there for orientation, a HB 9 had trouble opening her dorm room, as I walked by she started whining about how cold it was and how she needed her sweatshirt. Then she asked for my help. After opening the door we had a small conversation, she was turning bright red and was playing with her hair a lot. (I love it when they get all flustered.)

Anyway half-way through the conversation i got **** blocked by my friend, who was looking for me. So I said goodbye and left.

The next day I caught her staring at me from afar numerous times, which basically indicates a high IL. When I left she found me and said goodbye to me before I left.

In any other situation I would have gotten her #, but considering I live in the midwest and she lives on the East Coast I determined that it was pointless. (At least until I get back to school)

Now here's where the real question comes in.

I saw her on thefacebook.com, and under her relationship status it says single. I have not messaged her or anything, b/c I am strictly against talking online with girls I want to get with.

In this situation, considering I live halfway across the country, do you think it would be in my best interest to send her a message? Or just wait til I go to school to get with her. (PS we're in the same dorm)

Your comments are needed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In this situation, considering I live halfway across the country, do you think it would be in my best interest to send her a message?
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Talk to her directly and get her number! If you send her a message out of the blue, you'll come off as creepy. Your success will be better if you do things in person. Just approach her next time you see her and initiate conversation with her. She already knows you exist.
 
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So what if it's a LDR. Make her a booty call.
 
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Originally posted by Guitar_Whizz
You should be posting in the high school forum.
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Yeah I should be, but you know what i noticed? The advice from there is not nearly as high caliber as the advice is from here. So forgive me if I'm "under-aged" and not allowed to post on these boards...:down:

Desdinova, thanks. That's what I was thinking, and I will see her around a lot when college starts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Guitar_Whizz
You should be posting in the high school forum.
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Sounds to me like he's discussing college matters - orientation, dorm rooms, thefacebook... :rolleyes: Des's advice is spot-on.
 
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