"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chick from diff. school

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Okay, so my friend just broke up wiht his gf and he wants to hang with girls from a diffrent school this weekend. So I was going through my phone book just now and found a HB 8.5 in there that I haven't talked to in a bout a year. Now how could I go about talkin to her after this long of a time without it sounding weird let alone asking her to hang hah
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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defiancy

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she goes to your school or another school? provide more information
 

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she goes to a diffrent school...i've only hung out with her a few times but my friends want to hang with girls from out of our town so i thought i'd call her and ask her to hang but its been such a long time so i dk how to make it not awkward
 

defiancy

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I think its better if you somehow meet her in person and start talking like "hey long time no see" or whatever, but yea its kind of a problem

how well do you know this girl? If you actually were decent friends with her and just lost contact a long time ago you should give it a shot and call
 
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