"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chick from diff. school

toddC

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Okay, so my friend just broke up wiht his gf and he wants to hang with girls from a diffrent school this weekend. So I was going through my phone book just now and found a HB 8.5 in there that I haven't talked to in a bout a year. Now how could I go about talkin to her after this long of a time without it sounding weird let alone asking her to hang hah
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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defiancy

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she goes to your school or another school? provide more information
 

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she goes to a diffrent school...i've only hung out with her a few times but my friends want to hang with girls from out of our town so i thought i'd call her and ask her to hang but its been such a long time so i dk how to make it not awkward
 

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I think its better if you somehow meet her in person and start talking like "hey long time no see" or whatever, but yea its kind of a problem

how well do you know this girl? If you actually were decent friends with her and just lost contact a long time ago you should give it a shot and call
 
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